<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Jesse’s Substack]]></title><description><![CDATA[My personal Substack]]></description><link>https://www.jessetoniolo.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6hFL!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F5e1a8330-02c4-4dee-8c4f-a59ee250c830_388x388.png</url><title>Jesse’s Substack</title><link>https://www.jessetoniolo.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 17:10:35 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.jessetoniolo.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Jesse Toniolo]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[jessetoniolo@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[jessetoniolo@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Jesse Toniolo]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Jesse Toniolo]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[jessetoniolo@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[jessetoniolo@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Jesse Toniolo]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Curiosity Didn't Kill The Cat]]></title><description><![CDATA[What a child can teach us.]]></description><link>https://www.jessetoniolo.com/p/curiosity-didnt-kill-the-cat</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.jessetoniolo.com/p/curiosity-didnt-kill-the-cat</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Jesse Toniolo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 10 Dec 2024 01:17:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/a76ac235-fbc5-49b6-af54-a056052913d0_435x250.gif" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A simple way to spot curiosity is in children.</p><p>It was Halloween, I was walking to the local grocery store. </p><p>A little boy and his Dad were walking behind me.</p><p>The little boy looked up at me and he screamed aloud,</p><p>&#8220;WHO IS THIS MAN?!&#8221;</p><p>His dad became embarrassed and apologised to me. (No need)</p><p>The thing with kids is they are not conditioned from years of the schooling system.</p><p>They act on what is in front of them from a genuine place of curiosity. </p><p>I feel as we grow older we struggle to lead with curiosity. </p><p>Vulnerability is the main prerequisite to curiosity. You have to risk looking &#8216;silly&#8217; to connect with someone on the deepest level. </p><p>Ultimately, we are born curious beings. </p><p>Think back to the days when you played with imaginary friends and danced in public. </p><p>Yet this becomes quashed out of us as we are made to walk a tight rope through our teenage years. We fast become fixated with what to say and how to fit in. This process is what  leads to us forgetting that we were full in the first place.</p><p>Next time you are in your local park take note of how the young kids embrace everything around them.</p><p>Curiosity didn&#8217;t kill the cat.</p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Opening Piece]]></title><description><![CDATA[What is this?]]></description><link>https://www.jessetoniolo.com/p/the-opening-piece</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.jessetoniolo.com/p/the-opening-piece</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Jesse Toniolo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Oct 2024 04:10:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0__y!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc703f027-e8c7-4dbf-8554-ba6d0a503e2f_1111x1902.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are many topics and feelings I am excited to explore with you.</p><p>Here we are away from the chaos of social media. Too often I am caught mindlessly scrolling or worrying about something on social media. </p><p>Here we can look at things with a clear mind.</p><p>I&#8217;ve been made to do a lot of &#8216;<em>growing</em>&#8217; lately. </p><p>I&#8217;ve been made to confront some of life&#8217;s inevitabilities. </p><p>Because of this, I look at areas of my life with a new viewpoint. </p><p>Perhaps you might find some of these views interesting / valuable.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0__y!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc703f027-e8c7-4dbf-8554-ba6d0a503e2f_1111x1902.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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Questioning of everything.</p><p>I promise this will be raw, true to myself and with love.</p><p>The topics will consist of things that occupy our minds daily.</p><p>I don&#8217;t know where this will take us and that&#8217;s what makes me excited.</p><p>You will receive a flow of writing from me once a month.</p><p>Until then, take care of yourself, take inventory of what is around you and I thank you for being here.</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.jessetoniolo.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption"></p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Coming soon]]></title><description><![CDATA[This is Jesse&#8217;s Substack.]]></description><link>https://www.jessetoniolo.com/p/coming-soon</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.jessetoniolo.com/p/coming-soon</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Jesse Toniolo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 14 Oct 2024 02:43:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6hFL!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F5e1a8330-02c4-4dee-8c4f-a59ee250c830_388x388.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is Jesse&#8217;s Substack.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.jessetoniolo.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.jessetoniolo.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>